Okay i rlly need advice even though this isnt completely about pregnancy? someone plz help!?

You have EVERY right to be upset. I understand they are your husband brothers, bit at some point he needs to realize that his unborn child is more important. Try sitting down and having a long talk with him about how you are feeling and then maybe have a family meeting, and set some bounderies.. im sorry hunny...feel free to swing me an email jessiloug at yahoo.co.